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Name: Andrew Berndtson



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Hello xxxxx,

How is your day going sweets? Thanks for the beautiful pics; I guess I am getting addicted to my email because the first thing I did when I got to work was to check my laptop for an email from you and there it was so I thought of taking my time to write you back. My name should be changed to smiley face because that is what I have been doing since I opened up my email. I get a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you. I knew something was missing since I haven’t smiled all morning till now,lol. I was almost late for work this morning, I woke up late, I think I am becoming restful again, maybe I could sense something good ahead of us. Honestly, I just need a woman to hold me before I am old. Absolutely I have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. How much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? How much do we need for daily fun? Excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As I always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. It can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books, but cant buy knowledge. It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy love. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods, she can make me smile in all weather.

I am glad that I could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and I intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure, but I don’t mind,lol. Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear. It would be lovely to hear the voice behind this emails so I am also ready to take this to another level,let me hear the voice of an angel. Be warned I have been told I have an unsorted accent, but sexy,lol. Please provide me with a number to reach you on.

I have attached some of my pictures along.

Loving thoughts,

Good morning xxxxx,

How was your night? I need to be at work but just needed to touch base with you before heading to work. Thanks for the lengthy mail which I enjoyed reading, I should be rounding up the project in about a week plus from today; it’s good to know you are having a good time with your family. I moved from CA thought I mentioned it before to you though, yes Linda my late wife happen to be the mother of my son. Thanks for sharing more info with me about your mom that is so sweet of you, I do go to church and I am a Christian. Thanks for sharing more about yourself with me, you are doing something special to me in your own way and I like that, lol. I mean after all these years; I never would have thought I might not have the possibilities again of having my dream woman, my partner, my best friend and co pilot. I'm talking about fate here - when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. It doesn’t scare me anyways because truly, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. The inevitable truth is, if it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one.

Haven to wake up every morning by 6 for work; working from then till late at night, yet being able to be distracted by this woman. I have over 300 labourers here, both skilled and locals, yet all could notice a new glow on my face. LOL. Nelson; a colleague of got married almost two years now. He found his woman on the net and to be sincere, he inspired us. I would love to find my woman first, then building a home would start from there. I am being true to my feelings, as my old friend would say, Never question if you are in love or not, because if you were you wouldn't need to ask. So the best of men, would accept what they feel without questions, because truly, Love and death cant be escaped, no one can tell, when, how, or where. It is never too early or too late.LOL.

What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have.

If you are as open minded and simple as me, I can promise you that the sky would be the limit.

Loving thoughts,


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2015-04-04, 11:41:50
anonymous from United States  
Same first few emails as above, but name this person is going by is: Mathew Berndtson at <>; the first email I was given was He is or was still on Unfortunately, I did not do a search initially because he just gave me his supposed last name, but I responded to the email first. Sheesh, what an ass.
2015-06-25, 15:10:44
Great! I think I just read most of everything he wrote to me too and I was replying to him for the last week or so before getting suspicious and checking him out on google. Yay for internet search. Do we just leave him as is? Should I tell him I know? What a @#/%! My version of him is Joseph Berndston from Sweeden and I met him through e-harmony in Sydney although I'm currently on holiday in Greece.
2015-06-25, 22:03:03
Bax from United States  
Thank You for asking, before talking to them...

Please Do Not Waste your time or efforts by rationalizing with online criminals!

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2017-02-06, 23:30:29
anonymous from United States  
HE is now going by Alfred Berndtson, saying he lives in Midlothian MD, not too far from where I live. He first contacted me on January 29, 2017. Said he was leaving the next day for Cape Town, and would return in three weeks. Very intense, lovable, too good to be true mails, except in one of them he actually called me by the wrong name !! I was going to just drop him coz he was coming on so strong, but I googled him. I'm not surprised at all. I can't believe anyone would send money to one of these guys. They are so obvious.
2017-03-21, 11:09:54
anonymous from United States  
Hi All,
He is at it again. Now, he is Jeff Berndtson with the same exact emails complete with coz. I looked him up on Instant Checkmate, which I have while I'm entering back into the dating scene and he didn't exist. Then, I googled him and landed on this site. Thank you for setting me straight. We didn't get past 2 emails. The only ones that contact me on Match are Scammers Arg. I think I'll try the bar scene again. At least I'm dealing with real people.
2017-06-08, 15:46:57
anonymous from United States  
The man who tried to scam me used the same exact emails that I found on a scammer website. I was not forward for a minute. He spent two weeks trying to tell me how much you loved me and wanted to marry me and I didn't fall for it for one second but I did that it extends as far as it would go in hopes that he would ask me for the money so that I would know he was a scammer. Of course the money request came soon and after that I found Emails word for word written by another scammer. The scammers name is Randy.

2017-06-09, 04:36:07
Holy shit. I got the almost same emails end of April this year by a so called himself Kenneth R Gulley with the email address: He said he was a widower and he is a Canadian now working in Syria for some oil platforms business. So he could not phone call and could not allow use camera. I was fallen to him. Now my heart was broken. I trusted him and his words so much. He used a stolen photo from an actor.
2017-08-06, 11:09:34
anonymous from Charleston, United States  
Yes, I entered Jeff Berndston and ended up @ your site, he is @ it again. He was on Zoosk as tarpon 150. He needs to change up his routine. The same word coz and he has taken off to Cape Town. Thank you so muc,
2019-04-04, 21:35:26
anonymous from United States  
He’s at it again on Zoosk. Going by Richard Berndtson. Same exact wording in email to me. He ignored any questions I really feel like a fool that I did t listen to my gut instinct
This is the photo he sent me

2020-07-20, 01:05:23
anonymous from United States  
James is now on Zoosk out of Portland, OR under Jimmyston
2020-07-20, 01:05:24
anonymous from United States  
James is now on Zoosk out of Portland, OR under Jimmyston
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