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Name: raymond clarkson


Email: raymondclarkson77@yahoo.com


Address:
3468 Route 212
Bearsville, NY 12409


Other Comments:
phone 646-535-4074

Christian Mingle.com alias:
raymon2012
foreverlove2013
myhopeisalive

Rig Engineer
my own checking found he bought the house with Judy Blancher last September. 2nd scammer I've run across from CM who is an Engineer for oil platforms. Both scam types the same...Job is out of the country, money problems on big contracts concerning material purchases and needs a loan.


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2013-03-10, 19:22:53
Miss Marple from United States  
Thank you ,please post the mails sent to you from this scammer,as scammers are using templates(formletters) it can give indication from where the scammers originates from ,my guess it is Nigerian scammers behind this mans photos,which are stolen of course...
2013-04-19, 20:17:34
anonymous from United States  

Here is his first 'form letter'
Subject

God will direct our paths and we will hear His voice

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxxx


Hello xxxx,

Thank you for your friendship and the time you have used in writing to me.I want you to know I love the way you have written to me,that's a good sign of friendship from God.Well I would like you to know something very important to me,I would like to see if we can make a good relationship off this.I think getting to know someone a bit,is a good idea and I do believe you can fall in love with someone you haven't met,but I think it's sealed when you meet too.I am happy to get to know you and share stuff with you,but would like to meet at some point too.I don't feel as I am being very clear,so will elaborate everything to you.I have had the miss fortune of having my heart played by people who I try to trust with my heart,they knew my feelings were genuine as I fell for them,but it became clear that they weren't serious in life.I am not so stupid,but was let down badly and so am also keen to meet someone after a suitable time to check out the capability so to speak.I am not trying to rush things with you,but my feelings for you will be 100% from my heart.I am sincerely seeking a woman that believe in the good works of God the creator,to share my life with.I have a lot of love to give and feel that God has a special person for me,a forever person.I really do want to get to know you better more than this and to learn about you and for you to learn about me too.I will be very busy with work at this time,like you already know.I need you to try and understand why I want to take time to get to know someone like you.

If we are going to get to know each other this is important for us.Friendship has to be a base for any relationship and I think that by getting to know someone's heart you are getting to know them as a friend,lover and future partners.I would like to know that you are willing to share the good and bad times with me,to help and support each other when we are in despite needs for help.The fact that we both want the best in life.If I ask you information about you,Like what your desires in life is,it is to check out for my personal safety that you want a good life with me,it is not because I will turn up and stalk you or disrespect your wishes of not wanting to meet just yet.I hope this doesn't make me sound like someone who is full of doubts and hang ups,I am actually very open as a person, truthful and honest and have been a bit naive and have learned that not everyone is very serious in their life with what they need to be happy and complete.My problem is that I trusted too soon,I guess that in a way is where you might be coming from?So to establish some trust between us as a basis for love and the future sounds great to me too.I don't want to muck anyone,I am who I say I am,Don't worry I won't turn up and surprise you!I respect your wishes to get to know me better this way first and totally understand the wisdom of this,especially if you can be more serious with me.

I love everything about you and what you desire in your life to be a happy woman in the near future.I became a Christian years back.I was a student and always believed in God,but the nine inches from head knowledge to heart was when I became a Christian.That is my old testimony.Since then God has taken me on a journey of discovery and growth.He has loved me all the time but too much to stay that way.He has taken me through many trials and joys but always been there and it is through these that he has developed my character so far.I believe that he isn't finished with me yet either! Praise God for that.I believe that the Lord gives us a daily testimony and if you haven't got that then you aren't growing.He has been faithful to me all through and is my rock.Like you I am overwhelmed at how much he loves me,and the daily revelation of his love for me is awesome.He is so worthy of all praise and love and just keeps pouring his love out.One of the scriptures that regularly blows my brains is Ephesians 1 v 4- 8 Wow- He loves us so much he planned it all before we even existed- A rescue plan.I feel privileged to know his love and want others to know it.My ministry in church is a bridge building one.Reaching people who are not yet Christians so that they will see God's love for themselves and come to know him through relationships with Christians.I love to worship too.I am not a musician or singer up front but love to worship in spirit and truth and sing loudly I am told!I don't know about that but I do know I love to worship and praise the lord.

Through my recent experience I have learned so much about God's love and in trusting Him more and more. He has his hand on my life I know it and has kept me safe.I am excited at the prospect of getting to know you more and being in contact with you and appreciate your honesty in what you have said.I will be praying about us- seems funny writing that eh?I will pray that God will direct our paths and we will hear His voice and each others hearts in this.Well God Bless you and keep you well.I await your reply with hope in my heart that we can get to know each other better and meet in person.

Regards,
Ray
2013-04-19, 20:21:57
anonymous from United States  
Here is the 2nd 'form letter' sent to me:

Subject:
Communication with Trust is a great tool in any relationship

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From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx


Hello xxxx,




So sorry for my late reply to you Debb,just that I have been so busy with lots of stuffs,and no time for myself or time to be on the computer.I had to wake up this late now so I can be able to write to you,so you don't think am not interested in communicating with you.Am happy to read from you.I want you to know that no matter what I am doing in my daily life now,thoughts of you will always occupy my heart.You have certainly given me a good insight into 'you and your beliefs,your hopes and desires.Thank you for the time you've taken to do so with me ever since communication together.It is very enlightening.I agree with a lot of what you've shared.There is a lot of commonality and like-minded beliefs.I have reached the time in my life where I've finally come to know who I am,apart from my life and my child.I have had my share of failures and don't want another one.I want the best that God has for me and don't want to settle for less than that.I have 'settled for' before in relationships,and now realize that this has been due to my own impatience and justifying my behavior.I only short changed myself and the partner I want in life.Of course,it was doomed to failure no matter how hard I tried to make it work out.God has to be the cornerstone of any relationship that I enter into now,whether friendship or marriage.




I do want to be married again.But,this time I want to experience the fullness of what God intended for the marriage union to be. I've never had that,and I desire it very deeply.I want to be more than loved,I want to be cherished by my mate.I want a complete partner and helpmate on every level of our union.I want to experience the deeper intimacy and soul to soul connection of the physical lovemaking with my God-chosen mate.I believe,as you do,that it is a most wonderful gift that is given to truly God-matched partners. I've experienced very good sex,but I want to have absolutely mind blowing lovemaking in my marriage.That is only possible with soul to soul contact with the right partner.




We all have our strengths and our weaknesses.I want a Woman who is secure enough to recognize mine and her own and to see how we can mesh them to create one very strong unit.She needs to be able to support me by her strength when I need it,and to accept my strength without being intimidated by it.It will be a very special,Godly woman who will be able to do this without feeling the need to crush my strengths in order to feel stronger herself.A true marriage union will be one that is complete acceptance,without the need for the other partner to change to meet our concept of perfection.There is no other perfection in a human being outside of Jesus Christ,and there never will be.To try to force our own will on another is to try to subjugate them,not to love them.




I believe that any good,God-centered relationship is a true gift from God.To have a strong friendship is to be centered correctly to begin with.Can we have friendships with unbelievers?Yes,I believe we can,but it will always be limited in the response and support we give and receive,until they finally open their eyes and heart to our Lord.We are to be missionaries in every facet of our lives every day. Let others daily see Christ in me!That is my ultimate calling.I have raised the child that God gave me to know Him and His ways.That is my steward's responsibility as a Father,but also my privilege too.My child has known the Lord as his Savior,and for that I praise God.he is a good human being in his own right,he is being raised to know and love God also.Is he perfect?Of course not.he may faultier,he has to find his own way in this world.I have always claimed the promise of God that if I 'raise him in the way he should go,when he is old he will not depart from it.' God is ever faithful!I've seen this promise fulfilled in my child.I know that if I am faithful and pray over him,direct him when needed,and love him unconditionally,God will always be at his core knowledge.hes never walk very far away from Him,because He will always be there beside him.Thank you Lord!!




Communication,truly honest communication,is a great tool in any relationship.That means more than just talking.It means opening yourself up,making yourself vulnerable to the other person.It is a risk that we take to create something valuable.The reward is a great and lasting relationship.When we hide or secret away our thoughts or behaviors from the other person we create a boulder in our path and a weak spot in our foundation.Honesty, transparency and love are the tools to create good communication.It is a vital link to the success of any type of relationship,whether it is friendship or more.It is extremely important in a friendship or a marriage.Peace,comfort, understanding,acceptance and true love,all come from honest communication.It something that we need to reinforce and create fresh every day.Thank you for sharing with me,and for allowing me to share with you.It's a very good start for us now.Only God,through prayer,and time will tell where this will lead us.I hope that your day has been good for you.Yours is ending as mine is only partway done.I must go back to bed now.




God Bless,

Ray
2013-04-19, 20:24:18
anonymous from United States  
Here is a 3rd

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About my faith and hopes on the good lord our God

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From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx



Hello xxxx,

Thank you for the time you used in keeping in touch with me.Here I am now writing to you about my faith and hopes on the good lord our God and also about all my dreams and desires in life which am hoping to come to pass in my life,and who I find that true love with.I would have to say I have a pretty easy-going personality,and cherish all the people in my life.I love to laugh and not stress about every little thing.My trust is in the Lord.I know the best is yet to come.I enjoy the little things in life that can go unnoticed. Like watching a small child's mind engage trying to figure out how something works.Or taking in the small rural communities of another country where tourists never frequent.Gazing upon God's creation in the silence of a summer's evening.Having someone to share these moments would only make them better.Don't you think?

Being a Christian:For me,my awareness of God started at a very young age.My heart could feel His presence.I felt Him call me to be His. Throughout my life I have fallen away from Him on many occasions,but always,He would call me back.I could never live in peace without Him.To me,being a Christian is more than just believing He exists,it is being drawn to that radiating love as a moth to the flame.wanting to be all that He intended me to be,longing to please Him.In order to do that we need to grow in our relationship with Him,no matter where we are at in that relationship.To me,fulfilling His purpose means a growing faith and a constant drive to know Him better.It's not out of legalism,or because we won't attain Heaven,or we will be frowned upon by our elders who brought us up in the faith. It is a circle of love. I know the love of family,friends and marriage because He shared His love with me.The love we see in others is Him.It is all connected.He is within all of us.Some just haven't opened their mind and heart to that,for whatever reason.

Christian Friendship:It is starting point for getting to know someone.This type of relationship may develop quickly,or slowly over time.A true friendship is a place of comfort and is non-judgmental,even for differing opinions.It is a relationship that offers support and a dialogue to share dreams and disappointments.There is no keeping score.A Christian-based friendship should be able to advise each other when they see the other making a mistake,a means of offering the 'big picture' to help the other get back on track,even if it may not be easy to say.A true friend will not undermine the beliefs of the other,even if they don't necessarily support those beliefs.They will rally for that friend and their goals.You are open to learning,as well as sharing.You give without expectation.A Christian friend will always pray for their friend.A physical, intimate relationship would not fall into this category.

Christian Friendship turned to Love:For a marriage to be strong and healthy,and God-based,it needs to start out as friends.The time frame for the friendship phase may vary,but should never, ever be rushed. 'Love at first sight' tends to be lust in disguise,or possibly a lonely, impatient heart looking to fill a void.The only real way to know if love is real is to give it time to be tested by life and its challenges.Again, the length of time will vary for different couples.I believe falling in love is a choice.The determining factor should be those issues at the very base of your beliefs.Why give your heart to someone with whom you are not equally yoked.Experience has shown me that no matter how much you love a person that is fundamentally different in what is most important to you,it will likely never change.Our love for the other should,in fact,be an honor,a support,a nourishment to their soul.If we are constantly wanting change in the most important characteristics of our partners,we will end up frustrated and so will they.(1 Corinthians 13:4). Yes, love is all those things,but be sure to fall for someone who is heading in the same direction and shares your sensibilities.Love should always guard and protect it's partner, providing a place of security,and stability.A physical,intimate relationship would not fall into this category.

Christian Marriage:Upon awareness of the realization that this person can be trusted with your heart,your finances, your life in Christ.first seek God,and seek Him with all your heart.Pray about it.Be sure you are being honest with yourself,and you are not just trying to fill some void within yourself.Once you know you have the Lord's blessing and you feel you have someone with whom you can attain God's goals for your life,then marriage can be such a blessing,and love will overflow.Okay.Now that physical,intimate,deep expression of your love can be realized.There is no better love-making in the world than when it is with your spouse.When you can actually feel a deeper level of love, and an explainable bonding within the realm of utter trust and abandonment!!I believe this is one of God's best gifts.Well worth the wait when everything falls into place in a Christian marriage.So..that is my heart's desire.To walk the path that leads me to this woman who has God at the center of every part of her life,whomever she will be.I hope you read and send me more pictures and send your phone number to me as well.

Warm Regards,
Ray
2013-04-19, 20:28:36
anonymous from United States  

He sent me some questions to answer and these are his answers to the same questions
But would never answer anything I asked first.

Subject
My answers to the same Questions for you.

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From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx


Hello xxxx,

I am so happy and excited to receive your letter,you are truly a very nice woman. I actually thought this was pretty fun and I would like to return the favor and return my answers to you too. Here are my answers.

What's Your Favorite Food? Thai food
What's Your Favorite T.V. Show? Definitely Law and Order all of them
What's Your Favorite Song? All of Me by Jeffrey Osborne
What's Your Favorite Movie? Aw that's a tough one as I like a lot of movies but I would have to say, 'The Notebook.'
What's Your Favorite Color? Blue
What's Your Favorite Hobby? I love to cook
What's Your Favorite Book? Lovely Bones
What's Your Favorite Web Site? I am a bit of a scrabble buff I hate to admit so literati of yahoo!
What's Your Favorite Drink? Tea for the daytime, red-wine for the night time
What's Your Favorite Store? David Jones
What are your Turn-on and Turn-off? A turn on in a non-sexual matter would be someone that is well-groomed, mannered as well as insightful and a turn-off would be someones ego above others. A sexual turn on and off you will have to wait I am afraid in suspense for that one.
Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes but I know from experience to use my faith first now, heart and head to get there.
Do you think that true love can conquer all? I believe that true faith can conquer all
Do you think friends make better lovers? Definitely as the love deepens and grows much further and it is also on an emotional level
What have you learned about love from other people? Love can break a person, love can do a lot of things but a healthy true love in God's vision will stand the test of time
Do you think romance is an important part of a relationship? Why? Romance is a very important part in a relationship especially in marriage as it keeps the magic alive, shows you still care and creates adventure and intrigue.
What do you consider to be romantic? Loads of things romantic poetry, a moonlit walk, a hot shower, champagne in the spa......I could go on and on
Do you believe fate plays a hand in finding love? No I believe that God has a purpose in our finding true love
Do you believe in soul-mates? Yes I believe there is
What do you think true love is? I believe true love is a lot of things, for me there has to be a lot of common bonds to walk that journey the very first being faith, second would have to be what is inside then last the outside package. Faith, friendship, trust, forgiveness, acceptance, to be able to look at oneself and always see the need for further improvement as nobody wants to stay the same or feel they are perfect.
Are You For REAL and TRUE? That is a strange question, yes I am for real and I am always true to my word. I am a straight shooter I tell things like they are, why skirt around things as life is too short. I never play games with peoples' emotions, I would never intentionally hurt someone.
Do you like kissing? I would love to be eventually be kissed again someday by that person who truly loves me just the way I am.

I was married before my wife passed,which I don't really like to talk about much more.I would rather these days put it to better use by helping others in similar situations. I never want people to hear my story and immediately feel sorry for me but rather to be inspired if I can change the life of another.I know that when I find that true friend in my life I will never want to let them go.I hope this letter finds you well and I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Best Regards,
Ray
2013-04-19, 20:43:38
anonymous from United States  

Here was the start of the 'set up'

Subject
About the meeting and the job am bidding for.

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx


Hello Sweetheart,

Thank you for your message and all you've said.I want you to know I was so busy yesterday and got so tired that I couldn't even get on my computer to respond to your message.Am so sorry about that,hope you forgive me.I am doing my best to plan on the day we can both meet.cant wait to come to the where you are,so I can be able to meet with you in person.Right now am bidding for a contract job as you know already which I told you about that we will be having a meeting for it.I want you to know that we are 10 in number that is bidding on getting this contract job,but the contract will only be awarded to 3 persons only,from Two big Oil Company to different job locations for which they operate around the Globe.The two different companies are (Addax petroleum and Diamond off shore).Right now the Board of Directors of the contract committee are trying to make a Raffle-Draw on this,and we are expected to pick out from what they have inside the Raffle-Draw Box to see which of the location we will be asked to go and do the job as a contract staff and get the job done to a perfection.You can check them out on-line to see all the locations they are operating around the globe.Am just here praying and hoping to be the lucky one for the jobs.Am here waiting and looking forward to read from you soon..

Ray


(2nd)

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxxx


Hello Sweetheart,



How are you doing,hope everything with you is perfectly fine today.Thank you so much for your concern towards me and my new job I will be doing pretty soon.I want you to know that I am so happy with the new contract that was awarded to me which need to commence soon.It has be analyzed fully to me in details.The contract has been approved like you know,and soon I will be starting the project contract job on the high sea.I will be working on drilling of oil with Ocean Rig Petro-bars for an exploration on the high sea.I was told that this will include mobilization of workers,for disassemble and reassembly of the derrick structure for transit through the Bosporus Strait.The contract is expected to commence in direct effort with no form of delay since the Company who choose me as the qualified person who can be able to handle the job perfectly well.This contract value is approximately (U.S.D $1.4 Million),including an estimated 20 days of mobilization of workers,with an incentive bonus of 15%.I am very pleased to be part of this exciting exploration project with the oil company and I see this as an excellent opportunity for me to expand my relationship with Petro-bars the biggest end-user of ultra deep water units in the world.




This I believe will enhance the cash flow stability and visibility of my drilling unit.This recent fixture is a testament of the strong fundamentals of the ultra deep water drilling segment which is underpinned by the large exploration and production projects are already on the way by oil majors and national oil companies.Matters discussed in this release may constitute forward looking statements which I have with the company I will be working with.This forward looking statements will reflect my current views with respect to future events and financial performance and may include my statements concerning plans,objectives,goals,strategies,future events or performance,and underlying assumptions and other statements,which are other than statements of historical facts about my previous projects with other oil companies I have worked with in the past.This forward looking statements in this release is based upon various assumptions,many of which are based in turn,upon further assumptions,including without limitation,management's examination of historical operating trends,data contained in my records and other data available from the company.In the forward looking statements include the strength of world economies and currencies,general market conditions,including changes in charter-hire rates and vessel values,changes in demand that may affect attitudes of time charterers to scheduled and unscheduled operating expenses,including bunker prices,dry-docking and insurance costs,or actions taken by regulatory authorities, potential liability from pending or future litigation,domestic and international political conditions,potential disruption of shipping routes due to accidents and political events or acts by terrorists.Risks and uncertainties are further described in reports filed by Oil Commission.




I hope you know by now how the project that is expected to commence in direct effort with no delay of my ability of doing a very nice job.It is expected of me to carry out this project soon,so that I can do everything possible and finish everything by the duration of time given to me to complete the job.I hope you will be in support of all I will be doing and always be there for me.As an independent contractor,I am expected to fund everything on my own and at the end of it all,I give estimates on how the job goes and all funds spent doing the job so I can be paid.I have made a money transfer to China for the purchase of the Working Equipment/Facilities,which I will be needing for my new job so they can be delivered to the location of my new contract project site.I hope to read from you soon on what you think.

Warm Regards,

Ray

3rd


From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxxx


Hello honey,


So sorry for my late reply to you.Thank you for all you said and wrote to me,just that am a bit worried with the sad news I got from China after I called to know what the delay is from shipping my equipment's I ordered for.To my greatest surprise,I was told that the cost prize of selling and buying good over there in China is very high now and the prizes has changed from what I thought it was.I made a transfer of $300,000,00 USD down there for the purchase of my goods so they can be shipped here to the location of my job site.


Unknowing to me was that all cost prize changed and everything is very high now.The Chinese men selling the goods am buying that an extra $20,000,00 USD is needed to add to what I have already paid them so they can be able to get all my goods ready and shipped over to me with no delay.I am very confused right now as I don't just know what to do or think,since I have invested so much here by hiring of workers who will be helping out on the job and giving half payment of $2,500 each to them.


I am having about 100 men who will be working with me now,and also I rented an apartment and got a maid and a private teacher for my son so he can be well cared for while I will be busy working on the platform.Right now am left with just $8,000 USD with me after all payment I have made .am so worried and confused right now for I don't know what to do or think. my head is very empty right now.Honey what am I going to do?

Ray..

(After I couldn't give him money)

Too bad of you to hurt me.Not Good Enough


From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx


Dear Sweetheart,

I notice how you feel so sorry for all you said in your message to me which really hurt like hell,you aren't your usual cheery self when you wrote that message to me. I don't think you need a person like me in your life right now, you really need to worry about your future and it doesn't look like I'll be a part of it, and I just bring you down,by you not trusting in me or confiding in me in good and bad times of life.


I remember the exact moment I fell in love with you.you told me one of your stories,about the first guy you met which you don't trust but have so much doubts for him and since I didn't care I looked over at you gazed into your deep eyes from the pictures you sent me.At that moment I realized how perfect you are and how much you meant to me.Not long before I met you,I had my heart broken and I told myself I would never fall in love again, so I was afraid to act.Right around Christmas and this New Year,I finally had the guts to tell you how I felt and you wrote me back 'I know you think I don't like you but that's not true.I do like you but I am not good at expressing my feelings.' I remember how happy I was when I read those words, but then I got to hear my 'favorite' five words again, 'It's not you, it's me'. If we never get another chance with each other,I hope one day that you'll find someone who will love you half as much as I do, someone who will cherish you for the perfect princess that you are, and someone whom you will make the luckiest, happiest man in the world.

I love you so much, and I know I shouldn't because you 'never want to fall in love.' You know that not every time you fall in love you get hurt, you should take a little time and think of the good things that can come out of it instead of only thinking about what could go wrong. Maybe someday you'll appreciate me and see how much I love you.Just because I shared with you what went wrong here and asked what am to do made you think bad of me and started saying things that are not to be said.too bad of you to think bad of me with no trust.

Am hurt,

Ray
2013-04-19, 20:51:23
anonymous from United States  
After this the e-mail get kind of wierd like he is writing to someone else who acually met him and knew him:


My Hopeless Expectation

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx


Dear xxxx,


It's been a long time since you've heard from me. Although intend writing to you,I can say that it's different, it's cold, as if we don't have something we shared. It's been so hard for me to accept that we're living separate lives now, looking at things as if we're strangers. The pain that you brought me was not easy to forget. Every day, I'm hurt, but trying to survive.

Sometimes, I'm happy because I wasn't able to think of you for the whole day, or maybe I was, but choose to ignore the thoughts. Little by little, I'm beginning to learn how to love myself and not entertain your presence. But, sometimes I still feel emotional and choose to think of the past and the good memories we had, even if I know that it would worsen my situation.My environment, especially in the office, was not helpful for me. Sometimes I wanted to quit and start a new life far from you, but it's hard. Just the thought of not writing you makes me weak.I know it's not healthy, but it's my way of being happy for now.

Every day, I'm waiting for signs, which sometimes leaves me with hopeless expectations. Every move and every action you make, I interpret ... I'm like a fool watching every moment of you and so desperate for you to notice my existence. A simple smile makes me happy. A short conversation makes my whole day brighter. You fill the empty space in my heart, this is how you make me feel every day.Maybe I'm still not over you, even if I sing 1000 times that I'm over you, I know deep in my heart that I'm not. I'm still waiting and wanting to be with you soon. I still want you ,but you have to act like am your man and not treating me like a stranger by thinking bad of me.

Ray
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Where Is The Love?


From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx

It's hard for me to start this letter again.after I wrote to you last night I thought everything would be fine but when I woke up this morning I would realize that I wish it was only just a dream. I told you that I'm not happy anymore, partly I wasn't, but the reason why I said that was because I want to feel I'm still special for you, that you still love me, because you have changed a lot ever since I talked about what am facing here. Lately I feel you've taken me for granted I don't know if I'm just being paranoid but I really miss your sweetness,and your care.It really hurt me a lot,after all, I realize I still love you despite of all your attitude.I hope you will change.
Ray.
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My Lost Desire

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx

I feel like we are pulling away from this relationship. There are times when you tell me that you love me but I do not feel like you love me as a woman is suppose to love her man.I am thriving on our love. and when it feels like it is one sided, that hurts tremendously.Then you do things that confuse me. I see my pain in you when something happen.I see that hurt that I feel.I am hurting emotionally inside.You thinking am bothering you with my problems that's the reason for your actions.

The desire I use to feel from you towards me is gone,and am hoping we can bring it back to life with trust and faith on me from you by doing whats right. I feel like you do not want to be with me in that way. That you just want a family with no stress.I need to be touched, caressed and to be able to come together as one.I know that,but not intimately like my body thrives on once in awhile. Please help me understand this. Have you lost the trust,hope,faith and trust desire for me?

I see you want me to contact my bank for a loan,but do you know if I have exceeded my limits in the bank before I came here for this job?Well,I want you to know that I empty my account and took loan from my bank for this job so I can get it done.if I finish this job,I will be well paid and be able to settle back the loan and have enough money to live on.I know its hard for you to trust in me and anyone you haven't met,but want you to know that we are all humans,we cant just let fear and doubts kill what we've been building for months not and let it all wash away.

I want you to know that concerning the money issue,I have managed to come up with something good,and all that is left for me now is just $3000 to complete it all.I don't care what you will think of me now that am making it open to you by asking you to please look for every means possible to get me this amount without you thinking bad of me or asking me to get help else where.I want you to stand by me and support me now that am in need and rescue me from what am going through now.will be waiting to hear from you,good or bad am here waiting.don't fail me if you want our happiness.

Ray.
_________________

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx

Hello Honey,

How are you and how is life with you over there.I read all you wrote and understand every content of your messages to me.Well,I must say that if you truly think you want the best for me and for us in life to be together as one big happy family,why allow doubts and lack of trust occupy your heart and making you feel like you cant go out there in search of help for me.I am going to ask you this for the last time as your future husband.

Please go out there to get me the help I need now.I need you to go apply for a loan from the bank or from a loan company.I want you to apply for the sum of $ 25,000.00 USD so I can be able to get things done here and put all my workers to work and do a perfect job for me.

I have tried everything here,but none seems to be working out and I don't want the board of directors here to think bad of me or saying am incompetent for this job.If I can be able to do this job to a perfect stage and after all inspections are made,I will be well paid a big sum of money that I will be back home to pay off the loan and every other debts you may be owning any person and we can both start a brand new life together as one.

Honey I really need this money now,and don't want you giving me suggestions of going to ask others or going to look for it myself.if I were to be back home in the state,it would have been easy.so please I beg you in Gods name not to fail me.I want you to go apply for it first thing in the morning when the bank is open.hope to read from you soon.

Ray.
________

AND FINALLY

Will not ask you for this again.you have proven not to be the woman to stand by me in thick and tin.God bless you.
2013-04-19, 20:51:23
anonymous from United States  
After this the e-mail get kind of wierd like he is writing to someone else who acually met him and knew him:


My Hopeless Expectation

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx


Dear xxxx,


It's been a long time since you've heard from me. Although intend writing to you,I can say that it's different, it's cold, as if we don't have something we shared. It's been so hard for me to accept that we're living separate lives now, looking at things as if we're strangers. The pain that you brought me was not easy to forget. Every day, I'm hurt, but trying to survive.

Sometimes, I'm happy because I wasn't able to think of you for the whole day, or maybe I was, but choose to ignore the thoughts. Little by little, I'm beginning to learn how to love myself and not entertain your presence. But, sometimes I still feel emotional and choose to think of the past and the good memories we had, even if I know that it would worsen my situation.My environment, especially in the office, was not helpful for me. Sometimes I wanted to quit and start a new life far from you, but it's hard. Just the thought of not writing you makes me weak.I know it's not healthy, but it's my way of being happy for now.

Every day, I'm waiting for signs, which sometimes leaves me with hopeless expectations. Every move and every action you make, I interpret ... I'm like a fool watching every moment of you and so desperate for you to notice my existence. A simple smile makes me happy. A short conversation makes my whole day brighter. You fill the empty space in my heart, this is how you make me feel every day.Maybe I'm still not over you, even if I sing 1000 times that I'm over you, I know deep in my heart that I'm not. I'm still waiting and wanting to be with you soon. I still want you ,but you have to act like am your man and not treating me like a stranger by thinking bad of me.

Ray
__________________

Where Is The Love?


From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx

It's hard for me to start this letter again.after I wrote to you last night I thought everything would be fine but when I woke up this morning I would realize that I wish it was only just a dream. I told you that I'm not happy anymore, partly I wasn't, but the reason why I said that was because I want to feel I'm still special for you, that you still love me, because you have changed a lot ever since I talked about what am facing here. Lately I feel you've taken me for granted I don't know if I'm just being paranoid but I really miss your sweetness,and your care.It really hurt me a lot,after all, I realize I still love you despite of all your attitude.I hope you will change.
Ray.
______________

My Lost Desire

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx

I feel like we are pulling away from this relationship. There are times when you tell me that you love me but I do not feel like you love me as a woman is suppose to love her man.I am thriving on our love. and when it feels like it is one sided, that hurts tremendously.Then you do things that confuse me. I see my pain in you when something happen.I see that hurt that I feel.I am hurting emotionally inside.You thinking am bothering you with my problems that's the reason for your actions.

The desire I use to feel from you towards me is gone,and am hoping we can bring it back to life with trust and faith on me from you by doing whats right. I feel like you do not want to be with me in that way. That you just want a family with no stress.I need to be touched, caressed and to be able to come together as one.I know that,but not intimately like my body thrives on once in awhile. Please help me understand this. Have you lost the trust,hope,faith and trust desire for me?

I see you want me to contact my bank for a loan,but do you know if I have exceeded my limits in the bank before I came here for this job?Well,I want you to know that I empty my account and took loan from my bank for this job so I can get it done.if I finish this job,I will be well paid and be able to settle back the loan and have enough money to live on.I know its hard for you to trust in me and anyone you haven't met,but want you to know that we are all humans,we cant just let fear and doubts kill what we've been building for months not and let it all wash away.

I want you to know that concerning the money issue,I have managed to come up with something good,and all that is left for me now is just $3000 to complete it all.I don't care what you will think of me now that am making it open to you by asking you to please look for every means possible to get me this amount without you thinking bad of me or asking me to get help else where.I want you to stand by me and support me now that am in need and rescue me from what am going through now.will be waiting to hear from you,good or bad am here waiting.don't fail me if you want our happiness.

Ray.
_________________

From Raymond Clarkson
To xxxx

Hello Honey,

How are you and how is life with you over there.I read all you wrote and understand every content of your messages to me.Well,I must say that if you truly think you want the best for me and for us in life to be together as one big happy family,why allow doubts and lack of trust occupy your heart and making you feel like you cant go out there in search of help for me.I am going to ask you this for the last time as your future husband.

Please go out there to get me the help I need now.I need you to go apply for a loan from the bank or from a loan company.I want you to apply for the sum of $ 25,000.00 USD so I can be able to get things done here and put all my workers to work and do a perfect job for me.

I have tried everything here,but none seems to be working out and I don't want the board of directors here to think bad of me or saying am incompetent for this job.If I can be able to do this job to a perfect stage and after all inspections are made,I will be well paid a big sum of money that I will be back home to pay off the loan and every other debts you may be owning any person and we can both start a brand new life together as one.

Honey I really need this money now,and don't want you giving me suggestions of going to ask others or going to look for it myself.if I were to be back home in the state,it would have been easy.so please I beg you in Gods name not to fail me.I want you to go apply for it first thing in the morning when the bank is open.hope to read from you soon.

Ray.
________

AND FINALLY

Will not ask you for this again.you have proven not to be the woman to stand by me in thick and tin.God bless you.

 

 

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